7 Tips for a Better Orgasm
Say goodbye to boring sex! Experts reveal how to maximize pleasure between the sheets
It may seem obvious—have sex, and then feel great, right? But that's not always the case. "Not that this is a big revelation or anything but, unlike guys, we need to be in the mood to have sex!" says Dr. Alyssa Dweck, co-author of V is for Vagina. "If we're stressed, pissed off, feeling unattractive, thinking about the laundry, the kids, work, money woes, or anything else life brings our way, chances are, no matter how hard our partner tries, we're going to be as likely to have an orgasm as Lady Gaga joining a nunnery."With so many obstacles in our way, can we ever achieve that all-encompassing 'screaming O' we see in the movies? Experts say it is possible. There are different kinds of orgasms (some go deeper than others) and even if you're regularly having an orgasm during sex, you could be having a better one. Here's how:
4. Mind-Body Connection
When
it comes to sexual pleasure, for women, it's much more 'mental' than it
is for men. "People say the brain is the most important sex organ and
for good reason," Thrasher says. "It's important to quiet those annoying
thoughts that interrupt intimate times."
An emotional connection helps as well. "Having a strong connection with your partner strengthens the quality of lovemaking and specifically, orgasms," Thrasher says. "A woman should feel cherished, appreciated, understood, accepted, and wanted [by her partner.]"
Don't forget those fantasies. Fantasizing about your partner or even reading an erotic novel like 50 Shades of Grey can make sex that much hotter.
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An emotional connection helps as well. "Having a strong connection with your partner strengthens the quality of lovemaking and specifically, orgasms," Thrasher says. "A woman should feel cherished, appreciated, understood, accepted, and wanted [by her partner.]"
Don't forget those fantasies. Fantasizing about your partner or even reading an erotic novel like 50 Shades of Grey can make sex that much hotter.
Your Pure Romance party starts here! Make your next Girls’ Night one all your friends will wish they’d thought of! Book a party, I will travel for your party all over Colorado, Colorado Spring thru Denver, Castle Rock to Pueblo Give me a call to book your next Pure Romance Party, babette.pureromance@yahoo.com 719-304-6541 Let’s shop! http://babettesouter.pureromance.com/ #SexTip
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http://www.shape.com/lifestyle/sex-and-love/7-tips-better-orgasm?page=4
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